W.T.F.

[lumy12]

I'm so pissed off about this - I was going to post some "good" things about Aaron's mom's passing (if anything associated with the death of a loved one can be considered good) because Aaron said it really could not have gone any better. She picked her moment, she was surrounded by loved ones, there was so much love in her room it was palpable. But then something happened to overshadow all that.

Aaron's sister, P, came down here with a couple friends on Thursday. She didn't want to be in her house alone and wanted to spend more time with Aaron. P left her friend B in charge of petsitting her dogs. B is P's ex-boyfriend; P broke up with him after he did some stupid stuff and B is still like "I love you P, I want you back" yadda yadda. On Friday at 5:30am, Aaron got this bizarre phone call from B. He was quite annoyed at being woken up so early as it was his last day to sleep in before he had to start working extended hours. And the guy made absolutely no sense. For 7 minutes all he said was "Aaron, I'm sorry" and "I fucked up" over and over again. Aaron kept trying to get him to say what happened but he wouldn't. He mentioned that he would give P money, and that there were going to be cops everywhere. Other than that all he said was he was sorry and he fucked up.

He called P as well, and one of her friends. Like, 27 times. He was obviously fucked up. People tried to call him back but he wasn't answering. Apparently he's on parole for something so if he got in trouble with the law it would have been really bad. P called some friends back home and got one of them to go to the house and check on things. P's car wasn't there, but all three dogs were barking so at least he hadn't killed one or something. We all speculated that he probably crashed her car. Possibly killed someone with it.

P decided to go home Friday evening, assuming that B got arrested or was otherwise too fucked up to look after the dogs properly. So she walks into her house and guess what was waiting for her?

B killed himself. In her bed.

Who the FUCK does he think he is??? The girl just lost her mom a few days ago. Did he feel he had to upstage that or what? If he was suicidal... fine, couldn't he have fucking killed himself in his OWN house or in a ditch somewhere or something?

Aaron's mom asked to go to the hospice because she knew her time was coming. She didn't want to die in P's house and have P dealing with that memory for the rest of her life. And then this selfish asshole goes and does this! AAARRRGGGHHHH.

Thankfully, P is just as pissed off about the whole thing as Aaron is. He was worried she'd be more sad, having been friends with the guy and all. Aaron was actually pretty good friends with him himself, until he started pulling stupid shit and ruined his relationship with P. B came down here and the three of us went to a baseball game, even. He seemed like a nice guy.

But what the fuck - how do you DO something like that? That's the most selfish thing he could have done. And we still don't know what he did with her car. P had to report it stolen. Just another problem to deal with, because she doesn't have enough this week.

She wants to sell that house now, understandably. Unfortunately she'll have major penalties for selling it early.

I can't even imagine coming home to find a dead body in my bed. Ugh.

At least he overdosed - didn't blow his brains out, so it was clean. Still, she's never sleeping in that bed again. Aaron said he's more upset about B ruining her nice bed than him dying. That made me laugh. I really can't blame him though.

I wonder if he called Aaron after he'd taken all the pills, and was regretting it. Still... could he not have dragged his ass outside somewhere? Anywhere but in her fucking bed. Jeez.

Okay, well, that's the jist of it - if I keep writing I'll just be repeating myself saying "What a selfish fucking asshole," etc.

And I'm sick. Blech. I can't afford to be sick next week so my plan is to sleep it off by tomorrow. I've spent more of the weekend asleep than awake, but I'm still achy and feverish and tired. I just got sick in September - that's TWICE in 3 months now... so I can no longer say "I never get sick" because obviously the tides are turning.

Comments

[azurien.livejournal.com]

OMG.
that is the most horrific story i ever heard in my whole life!!

that poor poor girl!!
maybe she could rent the house out until it is time enough to sell without paying.

uck!!*heebies & jeebies*! i want to make her cupcakes!! :/

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

How very Hufflepuff of you!

She has a zillion friends, I bet one or several of them would rent from her.

[(Anonymous)]

That's horrible. It's an extreme example of why when one person breaks up with someone, the relationship should end completely. Having one person staying in limbo with their feelings is unhealthy. You and Aaron are the exception cuz 1) you've always been great friends and 2) the breakup was mutual. That rarely happens.

I guess B was a troubled soul who felt he couldn't move on from his "love" for P, so he had to affect her one last time. I feel sorry for him and feel hatred for that selfish loveless act at the same time.

-Stad

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

They've been broken up for months now though. Weird. P is a total heartbreaker, it's always HER breaking up with the guy, and the guy wanting to still stay friends. Heh.

Yeah, he really showed her how much he loved her. Stupid fucktard.

[elledwen.livejournal.com]

Jesus Christ. That's got to be TERRIBLE. Poor girl.

Also, get better. *hugs*

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

I know :( I wish I could say something to her to make her feel better, but everything is just... lame.

I do feel a bit better today but the computer is kinda making my headache worse so I don't think I'll stick around long. My inner-D! is kicking me because he wants to party but... well, screw him, my health comes first!

Sick in the head

[meli-in-sac.livejournal.com]

Thank goodness P seems to have her head screwed on straight and that things are mentally healthy with all others involved. This guy was obviously not right

My thoughts go out to you all.

Re: Sick in the head

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

Thanks. Yeah, Aaron was really worried that she'd go insane because she freaked when their mom died but now he realizes, if she didn't go do anything stupid after that, she can make it through anything. It's a shitty thing to have happen but it wasn't the worst thing of the week!

And thank you for the card, by the way! Yours is only the 2nd LiveJournal card I've received... and you sorta don't even count because you're real-life more than LJ.

Re: Sick in the head

[meli-in-sac.livejournal.com]

Hmmm.... I think yours was my first. I have "successfully" (sarcasm) been cutting down on the number of contacts to the point that I soon may get away with individually picking out cards for people instead of having to buy a box. Of course, Joe is determined to keep me from becoming a hermit.

Hmmm.... I wonder if there is any sort of formula to "calculate" percentage of LJ -nessvs. percentage of real-life-ness :)

Re: Sick in the head

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

Yeah, actually... I suppose it would depend on if you look at recently or over a lifetime. If it's the latter, real life wins out.

[sweet-panda.livejournal.com]

Poor girl... That is fucked up and no one deserves having to deal with it. Selfish bastard. Poor A, too. That's horrific.

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

I wonder if he was in the middle of doing it when he called Aaron, and he was already regretting it. But still - could he not have gone anywhere but her bed? Sheesh.

[azurien.livejournal.com]

well he could have called 911 if he regretted it. i mean at least go in the bathtub or something!!

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

Pfft. He was too scared of getting arrested for whatever the hell he did. I wonder if we'll ever know.

[senatorsfan.livejournal.com]

Cripes. What a terrible thing to do. Talk about inconsiderate! Poor P.

Big hugs, and I hope you get better really soon!

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

*hugs back* *from far away* Hey, you were sick last week. Maybe I caught this from you! Heh - I'm getting better. Very slowly, but my throat feels better so I'm much less miserable overall. I'll take any other kind of pain over throat pain at any time.

[senatorsfan.livejournal.com]

You know, I was thinking about that lol! I wonder if germs can transmit over computers. Uck, I hope not. I got this whatever-it-is from some fucktard at work who came in while sick and was bound and determined to stay there. So, of course I catch what they have. /rant

Anyway, I'm glad you're getting better! I'm feeling about 95% today (except for horrid PMS, but that's a whole 'nother story) so I hope the whatever-it-is you have resolves itself just as quickly!

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

*shifty look* I would NEVER go in to work sick... heh.

I told everyone I've been sick since Thursday so there's no way I can still be contagious... though really I was exaggerating a bit there.

I get mad at people who come in and get everyone else sick too, but I'm a hypocrite because I do the same thing. I even went to work with chicken pox. Ha! Got sent home in a hurry though.

[senatorsfan.livejournal.com]

Hehe. What bugged me about this person coming in is that they definitely didn't have to -- they had an article to submit to the paper but they could just have easily done so by email. But noooo. Instead they come in and spread their germs around. Considerate.

But I'll admit, I do that sometimes too. I've gone to class sick a number of times before, just because I feel it's important not to miss out. So really, I can't talk either. ;)

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

Thanks, hun, the worst is over, on all fronts!

[hourglassfull.livejournal.com]

Oh. My. Gods. I ... really don't even have words.

Obviously I'm not exactly having a great week myself, but... I dunno. If you wanna talk or something, go ahead.

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

*hugs* to you, yes you're having a rough go of it :(

I'm alright, Aaron's alright, sis will be alright in time. Thank you though.

I can only take the computer in small doses right now. I don't know how I'm going to work in front of one all day tomorrow. *siiiiigh*

[bitter-moss.livejournal.com]

Oh my goddess I am so sorry. That poor family. Although I don't know them, I send hugs and strength and peace. At least Aaron's Mother's passing was peaceful and the best anyone could hope for.

[lumy12.livejournal.com]

Yeah, it was. Thanks. And thanks for your card, I got it today! Made me laugh :)

[bitter-moss.livejournal.com]

:) I'm glad I could add a little brightness at least. I hope you're better after being sick too, it's the last thing you need :/.

[karinablack.livejournal.com]

how awful :(