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lumy12I guess when a friend gets married and doesn't even bother to tell you, they're really not much of a friend anymore, huh.
Well, fuck them. I hope they live happily ever after and all but I'm pissed off. Yes, I'm just that petty.
I'm sure it's my fault because I don't check my Facebook very often. Well hey, not everyone checks my LJ that oftenpretend I still post all the time okay but if something big happens and I want that person to know, I tell them. You know? Shit.
Well, fuck them. I hope they live happily ever after and all but I'm pissed off. Yes, I'm just that petty.
I'm sure it's my fault because I don't check my Facebook very often. Well hey, not everyone checks my LJ that often
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Date: 2011-03-31 03:55 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 04:00 am (UTC)I should be a bigger person than that but... I'm not.
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Date: 2011-04-01 01:37 am (UTC)And he totally should have said so in the texts.
I'd be pissed too.
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Date: 2011-03-31 04:06 am (UTC)So, yes, on your side! :D
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Date: 2011-03-31 04:16 am (UTC)But it did make me go look on Facebook and find a post where it was announced and it wasn't just a joke.
Grrrrrrrrrr.
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Date: 2011-03-31 04:20 am (UTC)*hugs*
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Date: 2011-03-31 04:31 am (UTC)Well, soon I won't either!
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Date: 2011-03-31 04:51 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 04:11 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 04:18 am (UTC)Please, Schnookums, do tell me if you run off and get married!
*shows off new orange kitty icon*
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Date: 2011-03-31 04:25 am (UTC)Trust me, Schnookums, I have no intentions of running off and getting married. If you ever hear that I have, I can be found in the nearest mental hospital suffering from insanity!
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Date: 2011-03-31 04:37 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 08:06 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 05:21 am (UTC)Yeah, I'd be very pissed off, too. I don't fault you that in the least.
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Date: 2011-03-31 05:42 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 05:52 am (UTC)Haha! Yeah, give what you get.
Agreed. Wall posts are fine and dandy for stupid shit
which is why I generally don't like Facebook, BECAUSE THERE'S SO MUCH CRAP, and I think announcing "hey I got married" on there is a fine way to tell the world at large. But when you know someone doesn't use that medium on a regular basis, you tell them, if you care. And I've also seen other LJ friends of mine complain about finding out something important on Facebook that they wish their friend/relative would have told them about personally. It's an icky "you're no better than the rest of these shmucks I barely know" feeling.no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 05:32 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 05:56 am (UTC)That sucks that your friends don't invite you to things simply because it's too much bother to do a non-Facebook invitation. People are so fucking lazy!
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Date: 2011-03-31 06:28 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 01:29 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 07:46 am (UTC)At least you have us LJers..and such?
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Date: 2011-03-31 01:31 pm (UTC)You guys ARE indeed awesome :D which is why I can't fathom ever leaving LJ. Why do people do that? Sillies.
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Date: 2011-03-31 01:37 pm (UTC)Fuck Facebook -- Aaron got on there with an actual fake name (he doesn't use his real name for ANYTHING), why can't you get on there? I haven't seen that movie yet but I should.
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Date: 2011-03-31 11:51 pm (UTC)It's not a marriage of convenience :P except maybe if she's pregnant. I wouldn't know, he obviously doesn't tell me such things anymore, now, does he!
Maybe I'll confront him about it at some point but I'm too pissed off now. I'd rather not give a shit by the time it comes up, because he's now in that category of persons I don't want to expect anything from or give any power over me to. If that makes any sense. I suppose the mature thing would be to call him but he'd probably just charm me into not being pissed off somehow, and I'd rather be pissed off, thank you!
His last name is VERY obviously fake on there. But he's been on it a long time, maybe they weren't all that strict about it at first? I don't know why they care so much. I bet your stripper name would work! Hehe, I remember that thing... a little... discounting New Jersey because I don't remember what street I lived on as a baby, I'd be Midnight Bonnie Rose. Not bad, a little country-sounding, though!
My LJ friends are allowed to "tell me" things by posting it in their LJs, cuz I'm pretty sure I don't miss much here. I may get a little behind at times but I go back and catch up. Can't really do that with Facebook and Twitter because there's just way too much (and it's mostly crap). Aaron hasn't posted in his LJ since 2009. I don't expect him to know things about me on here, so I really don't think he expects ME to know things about him from Facebook.
Facebook is evil! Don't join!
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Date: 2011-03-31 05:27 pm (UTC)I've encountered this with my old group of RL friends on FB, and we used to be pretty tight. One was even my best friend of many years. I'm feel like I'm just a number on their f-list now.
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Date: 2011-03-31 11:55 pm (UTC)I have some jealousy issues at times when it comes to online friendships... and it's just too damn easy on FB to see who comments to whom (I hate that!) even if you're not trying to. I have to wonder if some of the other RL people who are "liking" his marriage or leaving comments were told personally beforehand because they matter to him, or they're just on FB all the time so they know right away? Does he not WANT me to know for some reason?
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Date: 2011-03-31 07:34 pm (UTC)Even if he didn't have the chance to tell you in person, he could have sent you a personal message, right?
I think you should feel pissed off.
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Date: 2011-03-31 11:59 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2011-03-31 08:01 pm (UTC)...Not that I would ever use Facebook to tell people. Who does that? That's almost as ridiculous as using Twitter to send important memos.
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Date: 2011-04-01 12:01 am (UTC)So have you fulfilled your once-a-week quota yet this week? Who enforces that? Do you have to turn in a print-out of your tweets? Ha!
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Date: 2011-04-01 12:05 am (UTC)The secretary reads our tweets. Just another example of government enforced rules using your tax paying dollars.
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Date: 2011-04-01 01:23 am (UTC)Yeah, that has nothing to do with cussing students. GIP
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